While leafing through an issue of Seventeen magazine at the Pediatricians office, I learned about
something the magazine started called the Body
Peace Treaty. The BPT project is all about making peace
with your body, and being comfortable in your own skin. Readers
and celebrities alike are being inspired by one another to focus on the good
things they have to offer and to encourage young people everywhere to be
comfortable with who they are. This project was started as the result of a 14
year old girl who wrote to the magazine regarding airbrushing practices used on
teen models. She got more than 12,500
signatures in an online petition to stop the magazine from drastically altering
images of the models, and the Body Peace Treaty was created. Participants vow to make peace with their
bodies and body image, and the number of participants signing up is
remarkable. Some of the vows include…”Do
the little things that will keep my body healthy, like walking instead of hanging
on the couch, or drinking water rather than something sugary”…”Put my energy
toward the things in life I care about instead of wasting another ounce of it
on my insecurities”…”Quit judging a person solely by how his or her body looks
– even if it seems harmless – because I’d never want anyone to do that to me”.
What a fantastic treaty to sign and live by, especially in
today’s world where it is commonplace to dislike our bodies. Increasingly unrealistic body images in
magazines and on TV lead to the belief that these images are the norm, leaving
so many of us struggling to achieve these looks. These unrealistic body ideals can leads to
dissatisfaction, self-loathing, eating disorders and even Body Dysmorphic
disorders, where individuals perceive a defect in their appearance that is very
small or non-existent.
And though it is true that body image issues affect people
of all ages, it can be especially prevalent in teens that are going through
body changes. As the body changes, so
can self-image. A low self-esteem can
negatively affect behavior and overall mental health. Teens who feel badly about their bodies can
withdraw from social situations, or unrealistically try to live up to what they
think they should look like. Their self
esteem is wrapped up in what the media tells them is acceptable. Girls are focusing on losing weight and looking
flawless, while boys are bulking up to try and attain the perfect look, potentially
leading up to feelings of helplessness, depression, and poor body image. On the other hand, a teen with a positive body
image likes and accepts the way they are.
A healthy body image allows someone to be themselves, develop healthy
friendships, become independent and challenge oneself physically and
mentally. They may not be perfect but
they do not let their looks define who they are.
It is important to educate ourselves about body image issues,
be it by following the Body Peace Treaty, or just being aware of the effects
the media plays on our self-esteem. Images
being sold to us are not real and should not be the goal to a happy and healthy
life. We should focus on all the good we
have to offer and not our imperfections.
We should stop the self-criticism and be kinder to ourselves. And we should set a good example to those
around us, by living a healthy life and taking care of ourselves with exercise,
good nutrition, and setting of personal goals.
The camp environment has always been a place that allows
campers to feel good about themselves in a natural setting of healthy outdoor
activities and people all around who encourage and support them for who they
are and not what they look like. Camp
provides an environment of “come as you are”, and what could be more empowering
than that. A camp experience is not about make up or the latest trends in clothing,
it’s about being surrounded by true friends that are there for you no matter
what. During the camp season, campers
get a break from unrealistic media images on the TV and internet, and have the
opportunity to focus on challenges that they feel proud of, and moments that
will help develop a healthy body image for years to come.
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